Pete Beisner knows a lot about supporting a partner in pain. Here, he shares insights on how to take care of the person you love.
We will be celebrating our 14th wedding anniversary this week, and I can say without a doubt that despite the problems that come with periods of joblessness and raising two kids to maturity, the thing that has had the biggest influence on our marriage has been pain.
So, I have two sets of tips. The first set of tips is for supporting someone you love who has chronic pain. The second set of tips are practical suggestions for how to support a woman in an episode of critical pain, like just after she has had major surgery or a serious injury.
“NAIDWfundingMe™ application allows members to create their online donation projects in their member profiles, share it with friends and family through Facebook, Twitter and email, and begin collecting & raising money online and in real-time!”
The NAIDWfundingMe™ application is a powerful new “crowd funding” tool that enables our members to create fundraising projects; accept PayPal donations; and keep donors updated on the project’s progress directly from their profile page.
The purpose of this piece is not to make fun of those whose comments are off the mark; most people have good intentions. I've written it partly because I hope it will make those of us with health difficulties feel less alone and partly because I hope it will help others understand how to communicate with us better. Each of the following comments has been made to me at least once since I became ill in 2001.